Persistent or recurring pain during urination and bowel movements.
Pain, discoloration, bleeding or discharges in genitals, anus or mouth.
Your doctor can help you understand what may be happening and test for sexually transmitted diseases. If you see these signs, bring your child to a doctor.
Wetting and soiling accidents unrelated to toilet training.
Mimics adult-like sexual behaviors with toys or stuffed animal.
Asks other children to behave sexually or play sexual games.
Resists removing clothes when appropriate times (bath, bed, toileting, diapering).
An older child behaving like a younger child (such as bed-wetting or thumb sucking).
Exhibits adult-like sexual behaviors, language and knowledge.
Thinks of self or body as repulsive, dirty or bad.
Suddenly has money, toys or other gifts without reason.
Refuses to talk about a secret shared with an adult or older child.
Develops new or unusual fear of certain people or places.
Writes, draws, plays or dreams of sexual or frightening images.
Leaves “clues” that seem likely to provoke a discussion about sexual issues.
Sudden mood swings: rage, fear, insecurity or withdrawal.
Loses or drastically increases appetite.
Seems distracted or distant at odd times.
Has nightmares or other sleep problems without an explanation.
Other anxiety-inducing or traumatic eventsīehavior you may see in a child or adolescent.
Keep in mind that some of these signs can emerge at other times of stress such as: Noticing one sign doesn't necessarily mean that a child was sexually abused, but the presence of several of these warning signs suggests that you begin asking questions and consider seeking help.